Entangled relationships initiates when one person affects its significant other without direct interaction. You tend to have irrational emotions because you are hurt as you are not satisfied in the current relationship. Many reasons maketh the entangled relationships when your significant other is addicted to drugs,alcohol,obsessed in love,lack of commitment,workaholism… Your significant other is more addicted to work and spends less time with you over past few months.He has an impulsion behaviour which you are unable to handle,entanglement also occurs when either you or your partner falls for the third person to overcome the depression.Your partner starts avoiding you and in the worst case starts abusing you either physically or mentally ! When you move into an entangled relationship the harmony and peace of the relationship starts deteriorating making the situation worse.There is lack of mutual understanding and ego problems rise and neither of them are ready to accept their mistakes and settle things back to normal. To come out of entangled relationship first you need to talk with your partner and most importantly learn to accept your flaws and try to avoid them in future.Make time for your partner’s happiness since you value her smile more than yours….
There once lived a guy in london who believed very much in true love and he decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came. Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Delhi to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year, the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest.
So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas she returned hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Delhi feeling disappointed.
Finally, she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and have never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never returned anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life… still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl.
On the Christmas of 2008, he went to his friend’s party alone. “Hey, how come all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Delhi babe who joins you every Christmas?”asked one of his friends. He felt warm and comforted by his friend’s queries about her still, he just surged on.
Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her ….. not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn’t feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her.
“Hi… how are you? Enjoying the party?” the girl asked.
“Sure… yeah!”, he replied.
She was slightly tipsy… must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued, “Why…? Don’t you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?” Then he answered, “No, there is no need for that anymore…”
Before he can continue, he was interrupted, “Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven’t been searching for one for the past years, right?” The man looked up as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, “Yes… you are right! I haven’t been looking for
anyone for the past years.”
With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl none other than his former love ! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him.
All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was the perfection that he wanted, and yes… perfection! A Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore… For once, he felt the fear of losing someone.
As it was Christmas eve, the line was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through…. precisely at 12:00 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up.
He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Delhi to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Delhi, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma.
The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why did fate played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods…!! How he hated himself… for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 2009.
Moral: Treasure what you have… Time is too slow for those who wait, Too swift for those who fear, Too long for those who grief, Too short for those who rejoice, But for those who love… Time is Eternity. For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realize that it is too late.
Corruption is Social Evil “Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely.”
In its simplest sense, corruption may be defined as an act of bribery or misuse of public position or power for the fulfillment of selfish motives or to gain personal gratifications. It has also been defined as “Misuse of authority as a result of consideration of personal gain which need not be monetary”.
In recent Centuries India has earned a place among the THREE most corrupt countries in the world. Corruption in India is a consequence of the nexus between Bureaucracy, politics and criminals. India is now no longer considered a soft state. It has now become a consideration state where everything can be had for a consideration. Today, the number of ministers with an honest image can be counted on fingers. At one time, bribe was paid for getting wrong things done but now bribe is paid for getting right things done at right time.
It is well established that politicians are extremely corrupt the world over. In fact, people are surprised to find an honest politician. These corrupt politicians go scot-free, unharmed and unpunished. Leaders like Lal Bahadur Shastri or Sardar Vallabh Bhai Patel are a rare breed now who had very little bank balance at the time of death. The list of scams and scandals in the country is endless. Now Recently Before Start 2010 Commen Wealth Games Corruption is playing major role with commen wealth games. The Bofors payoff scandal of 1986 involved a total amount of Rs 1750 crore in purchase of guns from a Swedish firm for the Army. The Cement scandal of 1982 involved the Chief Minister of Maharashtra, the Sugar Scandal of 1994 involved a Union Minister of State for food, the Urea Scam and of course no one can forget Hawala Scandal of 1991, the Coffin-gate, fodder scam in Bihar or the Stamp scandal which shocked not only the political arena but the entire society.
Is it possible to contain corruption in our society? Corruption is a cancer, which every Indian must strive to cure. Many new leaders when come into power declare their determination to eradicate corruption but soon they themselves become corrupt and start amassing huge wealth.
There are many myths about corruption, which have to be exploded if we really want to combat it. Some of these myths are: Corruption is a way of life and nothing can be done about it. Only people from underdeveloped or developing countries are prone to corruption. We will have to guard against all these crude fallacies while planning measures to fight corruption.
It is not possible to kill or remove the corruption by improving the Social-economic conditions of the downtrodden. Because we all know that the most of the people who are corrupted are not economically or socially backward, surely they will be having a notable social status.
“Despite a decade of progress in establishing anti-corruption laws and regulations, these results indicate that much remains to be done before we see meaningful improvements in the lives of the world’s poorest citizens.”
The following steps should be considered to eradicate corruption:
Greedy business people and unscrupulous investors should stop bribing the political elites.Don’t be either at the receiving or at the bribing end. Political elites should stop putting their private gains before the welfare of citizens and economic development of their regions. Government should include a chapter in text books related to corruption and its desire consequences.
We are all need to stop talking about Corruption but we right now start ourself take the initiative and be Brave ourself. Corruption is going to end only when people like us stand up and speak out.
If we do not take step forward to remove corruption from root, the word developing country will always be attached with our country INDIA . So we the common man are solution for removing corruption from our INDIA and hence we will be also helpful in making our country development ! To initiate the anti corruption practices and abolish the rising increase of fake notes Narendra Modiji discontinued Rs 500 and Rs 1000 from today’s midnight… Is the announcement too late since ATM and Banks will be closed on 9th November 2016.Exchange of old notes with new ones will be initiated from 10th November 2016 at post office and banks.
Not everything in life happens as planned. Sometimes, the good happens; we rejoice, we laugh, we glow and bask in happiness. Other times, the not too good happens; we’re sad, we cry, we lose hope (sometimes) and we’re depressed. All these experiences, good or horrible, are what strengthens us. Just as an ECG have peaks and troughs, so is life. We can’t have it all perfect and no matter how we hard we try, we can’t have it all figured out. We can only picture what we want, it’s up to the almighty to make it a reality. If things are bad today, don’t falter, your sunny days are just around the corner and if things are good, enjoy it whilst thanking Him. Life’s not a rollercoaster, it’s not always going to be an easy ride. So when life presents its dark side, know that He’s there somewhere saving the…
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Well! i have seen many people trying to copy others and trying to be as another ones.I hate being as someone else or to act as someone else because we are born unique and one should be unique in their own way!
“It’s better to fail in originality than to get succeeded in imitation”.
Never ever be afraid of being different, be afraid of being same as everyone else. People tend to maintain the same status as others,tend to build their homes as others and they even study the same courses because everyone else are doing it!when you try to be as someone,you will always stuck in yourself and you will always be one step ahead of everything.
There is nothing wrong in competing or comparing with others, but you will always resemble them and you can never be them. Following someone and considering someone as your role models is…
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There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”
Moral: You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later. This story depicts how angry affects our relationships with our closed once and how it have to be managed from leaving permanent scar on their mind .But there are also some cases when we are angry because of someone continues stupidity and provoking nature ! Its better to stay away from people who provoke or mock you because in either case it will make you suffer. Conclusion: SPEAK WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY AND YOU WILL MAKE THE BEST SPEECH YOU WILL REGRET FOREVER ! If few minutes of patience can save a terrible fight from initiating as well as stop ill feeling which could arise after a terrible fight which could also turn eventually into hatred ! So why not choose the path of patience and control your anger !!!
It’s Monsoon and it’s Mumbai. A wet and volatile combination of nature and emotions. Chaos seems to take over the otherwise neurotic and paranoid population of the city. Suddenly everybody is in more hurry than they used to be. In this state of welter I had to travel in local trains at peak hours to reach my working destination. Forcefully I had to be a part of the mob I resented to the core. But that’s what Mumbai does to you, it makes you do things you would have never imagined you would ever do. It teaches you to thrive. You transform into a survivor. You start running, running towards earning a better material life for yourself. All along this we are so engrossed that we don’t realise that our running towards is actually running away, running away from essence, running away from emotions, the basic ingredients responsible for us…
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