Anger management-For better relationships with everyone !

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”

Moral: You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.            This story depicts how angry affects our relationships with our closed once and how it have to be managed from leaving permanent scar on their mind .But there are also some cases when we are angry because of someone continues stupidity and provoking nature ! Its better to stay away from people who provoke or mock you because in either case it will make you suffer.                                                                    Conclusion: SPEAK WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY AND YOU WILL MAKE THE BEST SPEECH YOU WILL REGRET FOREVER !                                                         If few minutes of patience can save a terrible fight from initiating as well as stop ill feeling which could arise after a terrible fight which could also turn eventually into hatred ! So why not choose the path of patience and control your anger !!!

124 thoughts on “Anger management-For better relationships with everyone !

      1. Deepika

        Well, I thank God I don’t have any work pressure!! 😊😀
        As for stupidity and provoking, that actually makes me laugh!! 😀😀
        Maybe now you’ve got your answer!! 😊😀

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  1. cp_chithra_cp

    Oh how true it is..as a person who used to be wrathful and boisterous at times(long ago), I know now how it is to be in a situation of anger!! It was as it is described in this post..” holding a piece of hot coal in your hand with the intention of throwing it on someone, but ultimately we will be the ones who get burned and hurt..”

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  2. Jacque'

    The wife and I noticed your blog and appreciate the content you have here. Please allow me to encourage you to keep writing and never abandon this site. I am a mobile developer, and if you are ever curious about having a mobile app version of this blog, I would love to help. We appreciate the hard work you have put into this blog and wish you all future success in business and in life.

    Thank you for your time, it is the most precious thing we all possess.
    -Jacque’

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      1. spandanchavan Post author

        Presently there is no need of personal app as I have not have much followers and don’t have money to pay for u either so whenever I will need I will tell you…how much it will cost in Indian rupees?

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      2. Jacque'

        I love my work. I will create one for you free of charge, but it will only be for the android devices. However, it will be yours to play around with and to test. It would help me to get good feed back from you regarding any improvements you would like to see in the app.

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      3. Jacque'

        I would be grateful to you if you could recommend a few other bloggers that would like to try their own mobile app. I will not charge them either and it will allow me to become a better, more experienced programmer.

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      4. Jacque'

        I can publish it on the Google Play Store tonight, but you would have to remove all the ads on your blog, otherwise they will deny my publication.

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      5. Jacque'

        I have gone forward and published your application on the Google Play Store, I will know in an hour or two if it was approved.

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