There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”
Moral: You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later. This story depicts how angry affects our relationships with our closed once and how it have to be managed from leaving permanent scar on their mind .But there are also some cases when we are angry because of someone continues stupidity and provoking nature ! Its better to stay away from people who provoke or mock you because in either case it will make you suffer. Conclusion: SPEAK WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY AND YOU WILL MAKE THE BEST SPEECH YOU WILL REGRET FOREVER ! If few minutes of patience can save a terrible fight from initiating as well as stop ill feeling which could arise after a terrible fight which could also turn eventually into hatred ! So why not choose the path of patience and control your anger !!!
Anger can always bring damage to you nothing else!!
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Yes deepika…But are you short tempered person ??
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What do you think?? 😀
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Everyone is short tempered maybe because of work pressure and the world conspires to entice anger in your mind either by doing stupidity or by provoking you at some point of time !
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Well, I thank God I don’t have any work pressure!! 😊😀
As for stupidity and provoking, that actually makes me laugh!! 😀😀
Maybe now you’ve got your answer!! 😊😀
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Really wow I am making some interesting people here
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Thanks for the compliment!!
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But seriously you never got angry at any time of your life?
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I’m a human!! 😀😀
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Have anybody mocked you till now?
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Has anyone mocked you ever?
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Question before a question ….hahah
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There will no Buddha on 21st century
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I like this!!!
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Thanks your appreciation means a lot to me
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oh that’s so sweet!
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But are you short tempered Kelly??
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No…not at all…very easy going.
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Do you have children??
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I raised 3 boys….so much fun..best times of my life sharing memories with them.
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OK how old are them?
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46, 34, 36
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What so must be above 70? Hahaha
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No…65…hahaaa
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Then I have to careful before opening my mouth since you are like my mother..
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Yes, always speak to your mom with respect…which is earned..not just given.
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My mom is 60 years old
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I had counseled families for many years… mostly dealing with abused children…I am so blessed with my family!
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Yes your genes have been passed to your children and you have passed them good moral values and lead a dignified life !
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These days are harder for both children and parents. Values, morals, are not value as they once were.
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Yes absolutely things are getting tougher each passing day !
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Absolutely! So sad ;(
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But will things changed or things gets even worse….People love action films so children think its OK to get angry and they replicate what they saw in movies or television
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Some parents find it is easier to let their children watch these, then fight with them about it..some use the television as a babysitter….don’t get me started!
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At what age you got married mam?
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18 yrs…stayed in college
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Sorry please don’t mind
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Hey, that’s okay. I’m good with my age…I have lived a full happy life!
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That means you are easy going and have jolly nature mam
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decades of creating! Thank you!
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I want your autograph one day !
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Oh your so silly! Don’t take life to seriously…stop and look for beauty each day.
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I am serious about your autograph…If no autograph possible then a photographs
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My website has my photo…
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Yes but its not taken by me
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Ahh…now I get it…took a minute..so much on my mind…
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Mam I want to meet you if its possible one day
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Perhaps one day our paths will meet!
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Hopefully… Fingered crossed!!! I want to meet here only not in heaven
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Same here!
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Which country do you belong to mam?
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I live in the USA…where are you?
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I live in India…sorry I forgot I asked you same question few days back… Now I remember California USA
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that’s okay!
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I live in Nagpur, India
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Beautiful!!
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Do you love India?
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Wait till they get into teenage years since at that time life will check tour patience !
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I remember those days…football, baseball, basketball…they were so into sports. lots of fun!
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Yes sports makes your day
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Keeps the teens busy and out of trouble…
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Yes that is the only solution available !
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As parents, all we can do is ins til our values and morals to our children..hoping when the time comes they make the right decisions.
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Yes but children should follow them but in India also things are changing
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In what direction?
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Negative direction like arguing with parents in loud tone
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Just a thought…are most mothers also working in India compared with the 70’s?
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Yes there is a growth of the working women in urban areas but the situation is stagnant in rural areas !
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I really love this post! It is so right on!
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Thanks but I still want to edit it little bit !
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Anger always harm us. A great post.
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Thanks sudershana….how are you?? How was your day??
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I am good. I had a great day. What about you?
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Had a busy day from the afternoon studying with my friend and thinking to write a nice post….hope I wrote something valuable…had I?
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Indeed! You have. Hope you will read my latest post and will share your feedback too.
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Yes surely !!!! Wait for some time
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Can we connect on other networking sites?
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Oh how true it is..as a person who used to be wrathful and boisterous at times(long ago), I know now how it is to be in a situation of anger!! It was as it is described in this post..” holding a piece of hot coal in your hand with the intention of throwing it on someone, but ultimately we will be the ones who get burned and hurt..”
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Yes absolutely anger damages oneself
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Great post.. Thanks for sharing this with us.. Conclusion is just The Best
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Thank you so much ! You liked it so I am happy
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Great one! I’m short tempered and i always regret for what i have done in my short tempered state😑
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Your honesty is appreciated but we have ro manage our anger for a better life
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Anger can be managed , but short temper can’t!😑
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Yes and this world this becomes even more difficult because people conspires us to get angry by mocking,bullying and still other malicious activities
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You will not be punished for your anger but you will be punished by your anger!
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Absolutely true
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The wife and I noticed your blog and appreciate the content you have here. Please allow me to encourage you to keep writing and never abandon this site. I am a mobile developer, and if you are ever curious about having a mobile app version of this blog, I would love to help. We appreciate the hard work you have put into this blog and wish you all future success in business and in life.
Thank you for your time, it is the most precious thing we all possess.
-Jacque’
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Thanks a lot sir for appreciating my work,feeling blessed.. Howcome Mobile app version is possible of this app is possible?
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Hi it is no problem at all sir, you post good material. I believe that you are referring to the word press app. But what I create is an actual application for your blog specifically, so that your users can access your blog at the touch of an icon, an icon that is designed by you. Similar to the one found here (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.technology.zenlight.themarvelousmind)
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Presently there is no need of personal app as I have not have much followers and don’t have money to pay for u either so whenever I will need I will tell you…how much it will cost in Indian rupees?
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I love my work. I will create one for you free of charge, but it will only be for the android devices. However, it will be yours to play around with and to test. It would help me to get good feed back from you regarding any improvements you would like to see in the app.
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Oh thank you so much sir….I am still a student and a part time teacher
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It is OK sir only for android devices will be great…feeling blessed how could I show gratitude in return..speechless at the moment
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I would be grateful to you if you could recommend a few other bloggers that would like to try their own mobile app. I will not charge them either and it will allow me to become a better, more experienced programmer.
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OK absolutely I will tell sweta ojha,deepika,sudershana,vihasi shah
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Thank you sir. I need to design your icon first. What would you like it be? If you want you can email me directly at: zenlighttechnology@gmail.com
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Send you the image which I want in icon
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What will be name of the app you will create for me? Name it spandan chavan wordpress
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Ok, I have the name of your app. But How did you want the icon that people can touch to open the app to look like. Here is an example of the one I created for mine. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.technology.zenlight.themarvelousmind
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Can my image be an icon?
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Yes it can
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Do you want the image on your blog or the one for your profile?
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I will send you the image on gmail right now
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I received your picture, when I have made the icon I will email it back to you
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OK I have send two emails and specified which one is final…thank u so much sir
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No problem sir. Spandanchavan, do you know of Sadhguru?
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No I heard this name for the first time.
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His real name is Jaggi Vasudev, he is an Indian yogi and guru.
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OK sorry but I still dont know him
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Hi!
I have sent you two icons for your approval to your email.
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Will be it not available on Google play store in future?
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I can publish it on the Google Play Store tonight, but you would have to remove all the ads on your blog, otherwise they will deny my publication.
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OK but I don’t know how to remove ads on WordPress
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Let me see what I can do
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I have gone forward and published your application on the Google Play Store, I will know in an hour or two if it was approved.
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Sir I have great news! I was able to publish your application in the Google Play Store, please view it here.
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.technology.zenlight.spandanchavan
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Yes I saw it yesterday only thank you so much
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Thank you for giving me the opportunity.
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Because of you my account is growing.. I will never quit this blog and will write new post soon
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I’ll be waiting on that post sir. Don’t forget to pass me to a couple others so I can build apps for them also.
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Yes I told few people and waiting for your response.
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Have you read my new post sit??
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Oh and I only received one picture from you, the second email never made it
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